5.27.2008

OY!

I know, I know, the lack of photos is GLARING!! My laptop has been attacked by virus' and therefore my ability to download photos has come to a screeching halt!

BUT! The good news is that I am married to a computer engineer who is going to SAVE THE DAY!! I do love that man!

Soon, VERY soon there will be pictures!

5.24.2008

Where is the training? The classes? The licenses/certificates?

With spring in full swing we have delighted in the birth of Clarice's kittens and our Mama Kildeer's faithful sitting on her nest waiting for her now FOUR eggs to hatch. I watch these mothers nurture their young with selflessness and skill that just amazes me. They KNOW, they KNOW what their little ones need and they DO IT and they do it well! I am amazed at the knowledge that God has bestowed on these creatures! I watch Clarice listen for the tiny cry of her kittens and her quick response to feed them and let them know she is nearby. I have been VERY thoughtful in regard to this motherhood "thing" as I watch a dear church friend choose drugs over her children...as I watch her choose to spend money selfishly rather than on food and diapers for her kids... as I watch her spend time with hurtful people rather than time with her kids...I want to be a selfless mom...one who will full heartedly serve my God, my husband and my children and NOT my selfish whims...

I wonder...when we have to be trained to operate heavy machinery, have a license to cut hair, even OSHA compliance records to handle chemicals shouldn't we too, have to have some expertise/some training/some class that prepares us for parenting? I guess not...as we HAVE God and his infinite wisdom to guide us...if we just seek Him. So, the question is...am I seeking him to my utmost capacity?

5.21.2008

Dear, sweet...Clarice...

...I knew this would happen...we ALL knew this would happen...we move to the country where there are farms around us...right? AND, where there are farms, there are barns...AND, where there are barns there are barn cats right? Well, our neighbors have about six cats that are wild and live in one of their out buildings. The minute Emma and Nate discovered the cats they were determined to make friends with them. I quickly realized that when we were outside we were being watched by these furry friends but they were not used to human interaction nor interested in human interaction except for ONE little calico kitty...her name is Clarice...she is friendly, sweet, loves to be cuddled and held...and did I mention PREGNANT?!?!?!?!

Clarice has been in our care for almost a month and guess what?!?! She is a proud mama of three little kittens! Oh, they are sweet and she is SUCH a good mama! I feel confident that Clarice is a dumped cat as she is too sweet and loves human company too much to have been exclusively living in a barn. She follows us around the yard and even chases a soccer ball when kicked. Today, while Madeleine and I planted bushes she sat right there with us just enjoying our company! I will post photos of our dear little kitty as soon as my laptop is repaired!

More orphans....devastation in China...

Here is the latest news from Half The Sky Foundation.

Dear Friends,

It’s Monday afternoon here in China. As I write this, the entire country just held 3 minutes of silence to commence a 3 day period of national mourning. It began at 2:28 pm, marking the very moment the massive quake struck in Wenchuan County, Sichuan. Flags flew at half-staff, the people wore white flowers and, heads bowed, held hands. Across the country, horns and sirens wailed in grief.

There are 32,477 people confirmed dead, more than 35,000 still missing.

Sadly and predictably, we are getting more information about children newly orphaned. We are now bringing together people and resources to prepare and train caregivers to help children through the next difficult phase of recovery. Unlike emergency relief (not our specialty but we're learning fast!), this is an area where HTS does have great expertise to offer. We will give all we can to these children who have many hard days ahead of them. I will be sharing our plans as they evolve.

Meanwhile, we continue to focus our attention on the most urgent needs of affected children – children in institutions and children orphaned or displaced by the disaster.

What follows is our most recent news. I’ve posted a few photos on our website:
http://halfthesky.org/work/earthquake08.php and will update as more arrive.

Ziyang Social Welfare Institution – Building sustained severe damage. They care for 48 children, 20 of them under four years-old. They request 50 cribs and cots, bandages, 10 milk pots, children’s clothes, 100 sets of bedding, bowls, spoons, chopsticks, toys and stationary supplies.

Deyang and Nanchong Social Welfare Institutions both have received notification that they should prepare immediately to receive newly orphaned children. All the children are living in tents. HTS will provide additional tents, beds and other requested items.

Guangyuan SWI – The children remain in tents. They were notified that they will be receiving several newly orphaned children (perhaps 50-60)very soon.

Shifang saw many of its schools destroyed, hundreds of children and their teachers buried. They sent us this heartbreaking story during the rescue efforts at Hongbai Primary School:

‘We found him!’ Teacher Zhang Huibing’s body was finally discovered,frozen in a posture of pushing against the door frame. According to the students saved by him, when the earthquake happened, Teacher Zhang was on the platform of the classroom on the second floor, which was very near the door. He yelled to the students, ‘Run outside! Hurry!’ And he somehow held the door frame up with both arms as the children ran out, one by one.Just as all the students were safely evacuated, the building collapsed on him. Teacher Zhang, who was only 30 years-old, had a four-year-old child of his own.”

As I mentioned in my last note, Mianyang has become a major refugee center. Of the more than 20,000 refugees in the city’s Jiuzhou Stadium,“scores” of them are young children. We are told, but this is not confirmed, that the entire center area of the stadium is reserved for toddlers and infants. Most are said to be from Dujiangyang, Beichuan and Mianzhu. Ma Lang is on her way to Mianyang now, so we will learn more soon.

Many children who have lost or become separated from their families are being brought to Chengdu, but not yet to the Chengdu Children’s Welfare Institution. Some have been taken to the Sichuan Children’s Center (an after-school and weekend activity center for children.)

About 30 children, from Yingxiu and Dujiangyang, were taken a Chengdu city park, the Qingyang Sports Center, which has been converted to a refugee camp. Some children have been united with family members. We’re told that some from the media are actively trying to reunite families. Most of the children in this camp who survived were in their teens. They told us that many younger children in their town did not survive because those in the primary schools and kindergartens were napping when the quake hit and could not run.

The youngest camp resident was 16 days-old. The military police made a special effort to bring her and her very young mother down to the camp from Yingxiu. The baby was only 11 days-old when her daddy perished in the earthquake.

Perhaps today's most heartbreaking story was about some of the 70 injured children who’d been carried down from the affected areas to Huaxi Hospital. Most of the children were reunited with parents or relatives; some were even well enough to leave the hospital after treatment. But a few children remained alone and unclaimed.

They were required to sign their own consent forms so that the doctors could amputate their limbs to save their lives. Half the Sky spent much of the weekend purchasing requested supplies and shelter, organizing distribution and continuing to assess needs. In addition to the much-needed and wonderfully generous monetary donations from our amazing community of supporters, we have been flooded with offers of in-country help from from volunteers.

As you can imagine, many requested items are getting harder and harder to come by. Just today we doubled our refugee tent order to 200 – all that was available immediately – and already have requests for more. Shoppers in Chengdu have begun filling a no-longer-habitable room at the Chengdu CWI (Children’s Welfare Institution) with everyday goods destined for hard-hit areas.

Others around China are working on fulfilling our giant shopping list. Some are flying in to Chengdu, hand-carrying items from our medical wish-list. Our wonderful friends at Gung-Ho Films, a Beijing-based film production services company, are offering logistics support, including shopping, shipping and door-to-tent delivery!

I can’t really express how moved we are by your generosity and your trust in Half the Sky to ensure that the children benefit from your gifts. Today 3 more HTS Beijing staffers and 2 Gung-Ho staff traveled to Chengdu to help facilitate our relief efforts.

We all feel privileged to be able to help. If you would like to donate to Half the Sky’s Children’s Earthquake Fund,it would be great if you would do so at Global Giving as (even though they take 10% for processing and we do not (100% to the kids but at cost to our programs) it allows HTS staff to focus on relief efforts while keeping our programs going.
http://www.globalgiving.com/pr/2100/proj2086a.html

If you prefer to donate directly to Half the Sky, of course that’s fine. Here are the various ways: You can donate by calling Half the Sky (+1 510525 3377) or on our website: http://give.halfthesky.org/prostores/servlet/Categories?category=Children

Many companies have announced they will match employee gifts for earthquake relief. Please check to see if your company will double your gift!

If you would like a Canadian tax receipt, please donate at
http://www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?CharityID=s86248

If you would like a Hong Kong tax receipt, please call us at +852 25205266 or online at https://www.paydollar.com/b2c2/eng/charity/payInfo.jsp?charityId=4947

Thank you so much for your kindness and concern.

with love,
Jenny

Jenny Bowen
Executive Director
Half the Sky Foundation
www.halfthesky.org

5.13.2008

NEVER

Never let the odds keep you
from doing what you know
in your heart
you were meant to do.

5.11.2008

Mother's Day BLESSINGS!

On this Mother's Day I praise God for his numerous blessings! My amazing and Godly mom, mother-in-law, grandmothers and aunts who have loved me and taught me so much! I still stand in awe of the five kids God has allowed Bob and I to parent who fill our lives with such JOY and INTRIGUE! I am also so grateful for such Godly mom's as close friends...thank you gals! I am especially thankful for God's adoption of me into his family!


"All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son." - EPHESIANS 1:3-6

5.06.2008

Sam and Jill before school this a.m.



Every once in awhile you just have "one of those" mornings...

5.02.2008

You can't forget what you have seen...

An excerpt from a book by Jeff Gammage (an adoptive father) called CHINA GHOSTS He really touched my heart with these very true and poignant words:

"In China, I learned that although American adoption agencies will readily mail you reams of colorful brochures and expertly shot DVDs and videotapes, they will never tell you what you need to know.

They never tell you what it might be like to venture inside an orphanage. To confront the life that your child, the person you love most, would have been left to lead in China. To see the life that children just like her - every bit as bright and beautiful, every bit as deserving - are living now.

They don't tell you that children of the orphanage are all coming home with you. That these kids with their wan smiles and growling stomachs are going to follow you across the ocean, move into your house, inhabit your dreams.

...don't think you are going to walk into an overcrowded orphanage, take one child out, leave ninety-nine behind, and be the same person when you sit down to breakfast the next morning. You won't be. It's too cruel a lottery. And your participation in it will mark you.

...when you travel to China, you think you're bringing home one little girl. Only later do you realize that a host of spectors have moved in. You think you are tying your fate to the life of a single child. You find out that you have been inextricably bound to the lives of dozens of others. And that there is little you can offer those children besides prayers."

5.01.2008

Memories...Mama Kildeer



As I walked with Bud this a.m. we were overwhelmed with the cries of a Kildeer...I love the sound the Kildeer make and they are pretty, perky little birds. I was so pleased when we moved to Killeny Glen and discovered that there are Kildeer here. I grew up with my grandparents living next door and my Aunt Delora and two cousins right next to them...we all lived on a 13 acre plot of land and it was an awesome place to live. It is a shame that as kids we just take things for granted. Then, unfortunately, it is not until we are adults that we realize what a blessing and privilege something is! In front of my Aunt Delora's house there was a great deal of gravel and so Kildeer regularly made nests and lay eggs in gravelly nests. It was really great to see the eggs up close and personal and the Mama birds would swoop and call and most importantly pretend to have a broken wing to lure me away from their precious eggs. I am absolutely amazed by God's planning in that! I would sit on my haunches for what would seem hours (most likely five minutes) and wish those eggs to hatch in front of me...NEVER happened! Well, we now have a little nest with ONE lone egg in it...a VERY beautiful little egg! Bud did NOT get it as he completely fell for the broken wing act and thought he MIGHT catch a bird for breakfast...she was TOO FAST for him!


POST SCRIPT: We now have two little Kildeer eggs and Nate and Emma were so worried that a car would run over it they have put a yellow marker flag to protect the nest! I love my kids!
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